Growing Our Life in Northern Michigan
I thought I’d update you on the continuing saga of “As The Snow Falls.” Just in case we lose power, you understand.
I set my alarm so I could get up in the wee hours of the morning to make sure EJ made it safely into the house. He actually drove all the way up to the house. He said that he had planned to park at the bottom of the driveway and walk up but he was so tired that he forgot until he was halfway up the driveway and, at that point, he figured he was committed and continued on to the house. Later, as he headed back to work, he made it out of the driveway without getting stuck, which we are thankful for.
It’s been snowing pretty much nonstop since Thanksgiving night but today we finally had a lull. I think of it as similar to the calm eye of a hurricane because the weather is supposed to worsen again tomorrow morning. The National Weather Service has issued the following:
WINTER STORM WATCH REMAINS IN EFFECT FROM WEDNESDAY MORNING
THROUGH THURSDAY EVENING…
* WHAT…Heavy snow possible. Total snow accumulations between 6 and
13 inches possible. Winds could gust as high as 40 mph. Blowing
and drifting snow will be likely.
* IMPACTS…Roads, and especially bridges and overpasses, will
likely become slick and hazardous. Whiteout conditions are
possible and may make travel treacherous and potentially
life-threatening. Travel could be very difficult to impossible.
Widespread blowing snow could significantly reduce visibility. The
hazardous conditions could impact the Wednesday morning and
evening commutes.
EJ messaged me during his work break that he heard we could get freezing rain on Sunday or Monday. Ugh. In case you are wondering, a lot of snow can be a bit of a challenge, but high winds are worse than snow, and ice is worse than wind. It’s like a winterized game of Rock, Paper, Scissors.
It sure would be nice if our neighbor Dale showed up with his tractor snowblower. However, we consider his help to be a gift, not an obligation, especially since he won’t accept payment for his work. So EJ plans to try to get our little snowblower working tomorrow morning. One way or another we need to clear our driveway before it becomes impassable. We can’t stay snowbound until Spring.
I did all the laundry today in case we lose power. I’ll set my alarm again to make sure EJ makes it into the house. When we were kids, we were excited about snowstorms, listening to the weather reports hoping that school would be cancelled. As adults, we still feel some of that excitement, especially if we have no place to go. The excitement is muted a little when EJ has to travel through the storm to/from work.
I’m giving the birds extra rations of seed to help them through the storms. They are flocking to the feeders. I’ve noticed the Pileated Woodpeckers, the largest of all woodpeckers, anxious to get at the suet I set out. I see them fly back and forth from one edge of the forest to the other loudly calling out. As soon as I walk away, they are at the suet.
I looked out of the window this morning and it looked like some sort of mythical creature was standing next to the bird feeder post. My son would say it’s just a small tree covered with snow, but I’m calling it a Northern Snow Troll. What do you think? (FYI: Having an imagination makes life interesting.)

Let It Snow (Christmas song)
Oh, the weather outside is frightful
But the fire is so delightful
And since we’ve no place to go
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow
Man, it doesn’t show signs of stopping
And I’ve brought me some corn for popping
The lights are turned way down low
Let it snow, let it snow…
As the meteorologists have predicted, we are getting snow. Lots of snow. Unending snow. It began on Thanksgiving evening and hasn’t stopped. We are getting lake effect snow, then a snowstorm, then a snowstorm enhanced by lake effect snow. What’s the difference between a snowstorm and lake effect snow? I’m glad you asked. The summary at the top of my Internet search page explains:
A snowstorm and lake effect snow are two different types of winter weather phenomena. While both can bring significant snowfall, they have distinct characteristics:
In our area, we get a lot of lake effect snow from the Great Lakes. When we first moved to Northern Michigan 9 1/2 years ago, we got a lot of snow, but there were gaps between snow “events” so we had time to shovel out before another one hit. The last few years have been quite mild, with not a lot of major snow events. We figured that sooner or later we’d get a snowy winter again so we aren’t surprised. This is probably the snowiest winter we’ve had because the snow has been dumping on us for several days without pause.
EJ has had Thursday through Sunday off. We had no place to go, so we have enjoyed watching the snow fall, and fall, and fall. The snow-covered landscape is very beautiful. The problem is that the snow is still falling and EJ had to go to work today.
Several years ago, our neighbor, Dale, saw me using our walk-behind snowblower to clear our driveway while EJ was at work and he had pity for me. Every winter since then Dale has kept our driveway cleared with his tractor with a snowblower attached to it. I’m quite sure he snowblows the driveways of other neighbors as well. He’s retired and I think enjoys doing it. It takes me more than two hours to snowblow our driveway but Dale can zip up and down a couple times with his tractor and it’s done. He doesn’t accept payment; we are more than grateful for his gift. This year, however, EJ thinks that Dale and his wife might have gone to New England to spend Thanksgiving with his family. So this morning EJ got out our little snowblower, which we haven’t used in probably more than five years. It’s not surprising that he had trouble getting it started. He worked on it and ALMOST got it started, but then he had to stop to get ready for work.
He left for work early to give himself time in case he got stuck. I stood outside watching him dashing through the deep snow in his truck. When he rounded the curve at the bottom of the driveway, I sighed with relief–but my relief was premature. I got a message “ALMOST made it.” EJ got stuck in the deep snow that the county snowplows pushed up when it plowed past. Sigh. I grabbed a shovel and walked down the driveway joining EJ in shoveling snow to free our truck. I got so hot and sweaty that I took off my coat and hat. I put my orange hat, which I wear during hunting season so I’m not mistaken for a deer, back on when EJ asked me but I kept my coat off. Finally, some nice guys with a plow on their truck stopped to help us. They plowed the pile of snow away from the end of the driveway and then they pulled EJ’s truck out. He made it to work ok, although he ran into very heavy snow squalls on the way.
Now we just have to worry about EJ making it home from work. He has decisions to make: Does he try to make it up to the house? What if the county snowplows push more snow at the end of the driveway and he gets stuck? Should he park at the bottom of the driveway (assuming he makes it into the driveway) and walk up in possibly heavy snow? Or should he get a motel in the city where he works? He favors making it home. I’m hoping that if the snow is too bad he will get a motel. Regardless, I’ve set my phone alarm for 3 a.m. so I can pray for him on his drive home and watch to make sure he makes it to the house.
I’m not sure how much snow we’ve gotten. I made a snow measuring thingy to measure. It’s simply a long think piece of lumber about 1×1 inch and a little over four feet high. I marked every foot so I can measure the snow. Only snow tends to pack down a bit as more snow falls on top of it so I don’t think it’s a very accurate measure. According to my measuring stick, we’ve only gotten maybe 14 inches of snow and I’m sure we’ve gotten way more than that. A more accurate measure is probably how much snow has fallen on EJ’s truck. Yesterday EJ measure the snow on his truck before he cleared it off. It was about a foot. This morning, there was about the same amount of snow on the truck. That’s approximately 2 feet. He cleared it off and a couple hours later there was at least three inches more. There’s another Winter Storm Warning out with additional inches of snow predicted. EJ checked the weather on his computer before he left for work and it shows strong wind coming our way as well as snow. Blowing snow will cause whiteouts that make it hazardous to drive. Also, it will blow the snow into deep drifts. It will make traveling to and from work even more challenging.
Even though I’ve opened their little door, the chickens have not gone outside their coop since the snow began to fall last Thursday. Theo the cat has stayed in the garage as well. Hannah Joy goes out to do her “business” and then rushes back into the house. They aren’t stupid.
Other than those challenges, the falling snow and snowy landscape is beautiful. Also, my trail cam has taken some very interesting footage. For example, yesterday night a possum was in the apple orchard when two deer (a doe and her young one) entered. The deer kept stomping their feet in the deep snow in an attempt to warn the possum to move away. The possum just sat there for a long time before he finally went on his way.
Earlier that same day, I went out onto the front porch. A doe in the orchard saw me and wasn’t quite sure of me. She quickly put her head down and up multiple times trying to trick me into moving so she could determine if I was a threat. I kept still, but the chickadees started flying up to me so I put seed in my hand to feed them. My movement caused the deer to finally leave. If you want to see it, here’s the video: Deer Sees Me.
Yesterday (December 1) was EJ and my wedding anniversary. We’ve been married 34 years.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Well, one day late. I meant to get on yesterday to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving, but by the end of the day I was very tired and just wanted to relax.
Our son spent Thanksgiving with his girlfriend’s family so it was just EJ and me for dinner. We are estranged from our families (emotional abuse) so we do not spend holidays with any of them. EJ and I both come from large families. Holidays used to be very difficult for me without family to celebrate with. But over the years we’ve come to value quiet, chaos-free holidays.
EJ and I always make the traditional holiday foods. We share the labor so the cooking, baking, and clean up doesn’t all fall on me. EJ makes the turkey and yesterday he made two pies–apple and pumpkin. I made homemade rolls and the dough for EJ’s pies, as well as the side dishes. EJ cut up the turkey later while I did the dishes.
I usually wait until I see our neighbor-across-the-street’s solar light turns itself off before I go let the chickens out. After that, I go out to handfeed the chickadees and nuthatches before filling the feeders for all the wild birds Thanksgiving morning I went out to care for the chickens a little early. I was going to wait a few minutes before feeding the chickadees. If I go out to feed them too early, it takes them a while to come to me. I assume they need to wake up. However, when I came in from the chickens, the chickadees began to flutter in front of the windows. Some of them even clung to the window sills. They seemed to follow my progress through the house, moving from window to window to keep me in view. I took the hint and went out to feed them. As soon as I stepped outside, I was mobbed. I’m thinking that the word has gone throughout the forest that a nice human feeds birds because I swear that their numbers are increasing.
When we moved to our 5 acres in Northern Michigan, I started calling our place our “Enchanted Forest” because it was so beautiful and peaceful. It feels like our forest is getting more enchanting every year. I have deer and other wild animals wandering across our property. I have wild birds eating from my hand. The other day, I was looking at the videos from my trail cam. In one video, there were a couple deer grazing peacefully when, about halfway through, it looked like a fairy fluttered by. Now, some people might say that it’s just an insect, but it sure looked rather magical. I’ll let you be the judge. Here’s the video:
The National Weather Service forecast “intense lake effect snow” beginning Thanksgiving evening and continuing until Sunday morning. We could get a foot or more of snow with “locally higher levels.” If–or rather when–the wind starts to blow, travel will become “almost impossible.” So far we have about a foot and the snow is still coming down. It’s very pretty.
EJ kept checking the forecasts on Twitter/X yesterday. In the afternoon, he exclaimed, “The 1-2 feet of snow is just from lake-effect snow! After that, we are expecting a snowstorm with another foot of snow!” Later, “Meteorologists are saying that after that storm, we could get ANOTHER storm with another foot of snow.” Then, “They are predicting snowstorm after snowstorm. We could get 5 feet of snow by mid-December!” After we went to bed, before we fell asleep, I asked him if there were any weather updates, adding “Every time I ask, I hear we are getting another foot of snow.” EJ replied, “I don’t know. After five feet, I quit looking.” Lol.
I’m glad we went shopping on Wednesday morning. Our local farm store’s Black Friday sales began on Tuesday and they were having a good sale on bird seed so we went then instead of Friday. We both hate the crowds that flood into the storms on Black Friday. We are just not die-hard shoppers.
For the rest of the weekend, EJ and I plan to just stay home and watch the falling snow and the critters outside our window.
Today is one of our most favorite holidays: Book Sale Day. Ok, so it’s not exactly a national holiday. Or even a day that anyone else recognizes as a holiday. However, we have adopted it as our own personal family holiday. We have the date written on our calendar and eagerly look forward to it each year. It’s the day that our local library has its huge used book sale. The library has little book sales throughout the year, but THIS one is the big one. There are tables set up throughout the library full of hundreds of used books for sale. There are no set prices: It’s totally by donation. Our library is located in a township hall, which used to be an elementary school. In the gym, a huge holiday craft sale is also held at the same time, but we have eyes only for the books.
On Book Sale Eve, I chose a pretty festive sweater to wear during Book Sale Day. The most appropriate sweater would have been one with books on it, but I had to make do with one with snowmen and snowflakes. Eric asked, “What should I wear for Book Sale Day?” I told him that he really needs to buy a festive sweater to wear on this day. But he wore plaid, which was good enough.
We almost had to forego Book Sale Day because EJ has come down with a nasty cold. But he said, “I’m not going to miss it!” So we didn’t. He was feeling a trifle better this morning. This year I took a few cloth shopping bags with us rather than use the library’s bags and boxes. It was very handy so I think I’ll try to remember to bring them every year. We bought about two dozen books. I couldn’t find any books by authors I enjoy, but I did find eight or so books by new authors to try. I also got another edition of Bartlett’s Book of Quotations, a Dictionary of Word Origins, three Ernest Hemingway books and one by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn that we don’t yet own, and a series of books about English Kings. I sometimes read historical novels and I can’t always remember which king did what. I figured that with these books, I can easily refresh my memory as needed. I also found DVDs of three or four seasons of Stargate SG-1, which is a science fiction TV series we enjoy. All in all, it was a successful Book Sale Day.
We’ve had a mild winter so far. Today is a gray day with periods of light rain. It’s rained for several days and is supposed to rain for another couple of days, but snow is in the forecast beginning Monday night. I now have more books to cuddle up with on cold winter days. I feel like a contented Book Wyrm which for those of you who may not know, is a dragon who collects books instead of gold, silver, and jewels.
Did you know that Iceland has a Christmas Eve tradition called Jólabókaflóð, or “Christmas Book Flood”? It is a cherished cultural tradition, deeply rooted in Iceland’s love for literature and storytelling. It is celebrated on Christmas Eve and revolves around giving and receiving new books, often accompanied by delicious treats like hot cocoa, Icelandic chocolates, or even a special beer. The night is spent in the company of loved ones, reading and sharing stories, creating memories that last a lifetime. I think that holiday is absolutely awesome.
Every time I go outside, I hear a “chickadee-dee-dee” and the chickadees begin to gather around me. Sometimes they land on my head. LOL. I now keep a small pill bottle with seeds in my pocket, so I can quickly pour some into my hand and offer it to the birds whenever they appear. I don’t want to disappoint my little feathered friends. A few days ago I took Hannah Joy for a walk down the driveway. When I was nearing the bottom of the hill, I heard “chickadee-dee-dee.” I looked up and several chickadees were hopping from tree to tree, following us. Until then, I didn’t know how far their territory extended. I pour seeds into my hand and held it up, and several flew in to land on my hand. Hannah Joy was snuffling in the grass, her leash stretched out between us, and several chickadees landed on the leash before flying to my hand.
I have decided to wait until warmer weather to try to entice the squirrels and chipmunks to eat from my hand. In this season, t’s too chilly to patiently sit outside and wait for them to overcome their fear and approach me. But I’m imagining that eventually I will have birds and little critters following me whenever I go outside. Then I really will feel like Snow White. A couple nights ago, I chatted on the phone with our son and I told him I was becoming like Snow White. He replied, “Actually, I see you more as Radagast the Brown from Lord of the Rings.” I don’t think I’m THAT goofy, although Radagast is actually brave, good-hearted, and kind to animals which are not bad attributes to have.
We adopted our dog, Hannah Joy, from the local animal shelter two days before Christmas 2017. She had been one of three dogs rescued from an owner who had mistreated and starved them. We were told that all three dogs had sand in their stomach; obviously they ate it because there was no other food. They were merely skin and bones. Happily, I think all three dogs were quickly adopted.
Our Hannah is very loving and loves to cuddle. EJ and I can’t hug each other without her insisting on one too. She hates to be separated from us. I’ve seen her observing our actions and routines and then trying to anticipate what we will do next. Most of the time she is correct. She is very protective. I think she had dreams of becoming a police dog because she seems to feel that security is her job. She tattles on the cats if they do something she thinks is wrong.
Hannah also has her issues and quirks, probably because of her past mistreatment. She is food-obsessed. She is addicted to eating paper. She occasionally steals Kleenex from my pocket and we have to keep the toilet paper out of her reach. She is impatient and wants what she wants NOW. She is very verbal so we always know what she’s feeling. She holds grudges and isn’t particularly fond of Timmy, who swatted her once when we first brought her home. She gets easily stressed by new situations and people. She acts rather ferocious when we have a new visitor. Because of this, we are careful who and how we introduce her to new people. Some people she loves; some she never warms up to. I think we are the perfect home for Hannah because EJ and I are quiet people who live in a quiet area. We love Hannah’s quirks and aren’t impatient with her issues.
EJ has a friend that he’s known since high school. They are as close as brothers. In fact, they are closer to each other than to their own brothers. The first time TH visited after we adopted Hannah, I wasn’t sure how Hannah would react so I kept her on her leash to pull her back if I needed to. She growled and lunged at TH when he entered the house. TH said, “Take her off the leash.” I told him I wasn’t sure how she would act and I didn’t want her to bite him. He replied, “If she bites me, it’s on me. Take her off her leash.” So I did and he poured on the love to her, and she fell in love with him. When he visits, she doesn’t leave him alone but sits on his lap and brings him her favorite toys. We call him, “Hannah’s Favorite Uncle.”
A week or two ago, TH adopted his own dog from an animal shelter. Cletus is an older dog, about 7-8 years old. And he’s BIG, weighing about 100 lbs. He is about one-third larger than Hannah. He makes her look small–like a pony next to a Clydesdale. Because TH is Hannah’s Favorite Uncle, we labeled his dog, “Cousin Cletus.”
TH lives far enough away (about 2 hours) that when he has an appointment in our area, he often spends the night with us and goes to his appointments the next day. That way he has a more relaxed schedule. TH had an appointment this last Tuesday so he arrived on Monday afternoon…with Cletus. He couldn’t exactly leave his new dog home alone. This was the first time we met Cousin Cletus. I was concerned about how Hannah would react to a strange dog. I gave it some thought and messaged TH that when they arrived, I would put Hannah out on her tether and he could bring Cletus near but pull him back if she was hostile. He thought that was a good idea because it was more neutral than the two dogs meeting in HANNAH’s house. EJ said that when Hannah saw huge Cousin Cletus coming toward her, her eyes got very big. Once we saw that there wouldn’t be outright hostility, we brought the dogs into the house.
Hannah and Cousin Cletus did fine. They wagged their tails at each other. Of course, Hannah grumbled and complained a lot while he was here, but Cletus has a gentle nonaggressive personality and he simply ignored her complaints. Hannah was jealous that Her Favorite Uncle didn’t focus entirely on her. She also grumbled with displeasure when Cousin Cletus played with her balls or gnawed on her bones, but she simply waited until he put them down and then snuck in and stole them back. It was rather funny.
I’m relieved that Hannah Joy and Cousin Cletus got along. I’m sure future visits will go well and they will become friends.

Meanwhile…
The chickadees watch me. They appear whenever I go outside. The other day I heard a “chickadee-dee-dee” as I left the chicken coop. I looked up and there was a chickadee on the roof of the coop looking down at me. I went out to change the batteries in the trail cam and a chickadee flew onto the camera. Another day I took Hannah out and a chickadee landed on her leash which was stretched between us. I’ve begun keeping a small pill bottle filled with seeds in my coat pocket so I have some handy whenever one appears. I tell EJ that I don’t want to disappoint my fans.
In the mornings, I go out to coop in the backyard to feed the chickens and let them out. Then I come through the house, grab a container of seeds, and go out onto the deck to feed the wild birds. This morning while I was leaving the coop, I heard a chickadee but didn’t see it so I continued on my way. I suspect that the chickadee was alerting the others because when I opened the entrance door to go out onto the deck–before I even had opened the screen door–I saw a chickadee fly past, swooping very low. I took one step out onto the deck and was mobbed by a flock of chickadees. I was too busy to count them: 10? 20? More? It filled me with delight.
I love standing out in the morning to feed the birds. I stand there delighting in the birds eating from my hand. I absorb the beauty of the forest. I watch shier birds hopping from tree to tree in the forest or swooping through the orchard waiting for the feeders near the boulders to be filled. I listen to the birds singing and calling to each other. I see the squirrels crawling down from the trees and headed toward the boulders. Sometimes I watch deer approach to graze even when I’m nearby.
Once I’m done hand-feeding the birds, I retrieve larger containers of seeds from the house and fill all the feeders. Then EJ and I sit in the house and watch the birds and squirrels move in to eat. The whole area teems with life. Even TH commented on how much life there is flying, swooping, and running around. It’s awesome.
I love our Enchanted Forest.
Here is a video I took a week or so ago of the birds eating from my hand. It’s difficult to hold seeds in one hand and operate my phone camera with the other. I think this video is the best I’ve been able to get of the birds landing on the feeder pole and taking turns to eat from my hand.
Today is a very gray, rainy, November day with high temperatures in the mid-60s. Once upon a time, I used to find such days dreary, but years ago my attitude changed and I began to think of them as cozy.
The warmer temperatures make it more pleasant to feed the wild birds. On chillier mornings, I have to switch hands, putting one hand in my pocket to warm while the other holds out the seeds. I have gloves, but they are knit and I’m afraid the birds’ feet will get tangled in them so I haven’t been using them. EJ says he has in mind a type of glove we can buy from the farm store that will be perfect for feeding the birds.
The birds don’t all land on me at once so that I am covered in them. They land one, and sometimes two, at a time on my hand, while several others wait on the perch on the birdfeeder pole to wait their turn. It reminds me of planes landing and taking off from a major airport. I try to keep count of the number of times the birds land on my hand. My goal is to stay outside until their landings match or exceed the highest previous number, although it’s not set in stone. Sometimes I get too cold or fewer birds come on a certain day. Also, my goal will eventually become unreachable because the number of birds has increased over time: Yesterday 106 birds took seeds from my hand–and 5 more came later in the day when I went outside. When I’m done feeding the birds–usually when there’s a decrease in their landings–I pour seed into all the feeders for them.
The birds come most numerously in the morning when they are hungry, but they have started to quickly appear at other times of the day whenever I go outside. The birds obviously watch for me since sometimes I can only take a step or two outside before they begin flying in. Their quickness in appearing makes me more aware of how aware wildlife is of us humans. I’ve started keeping a small container of seeds in my pocket so I can feed them if/when they appear when I go outside throughout the day. I’d hate to disappoint my feathered friends.
Our beloved cat, Little Bear, died Friday morning. He was very old–15 or 16 years old. We adopted him when one December evening we heard a yowling outside. We opened the door and found a little black ball of fluff sitting there. He quickly climbed up our legs and into our hearts. He was a very loving, cuddly cat. It’s sad to lose him, but he had a good long life and I’m glad he’s not suffering. EJ buried him among the pine trees past the apple orchard.
Saturday we drove to our son’s place with the air-compressor to fill his car’s flat tires. He recently bought a pickup truck and is getting rid of his car, which has issues that he doesn’t want to fix. EJ took a scenic route to his place–although in the region where we live there is actually no un-scenic route. We were delayed for almost 30 minutes by a huge bicycle race whose route led them across the road we were traveling on. The police blocked the road for them and waved cars through whenever there was a break in the cyclists, but that wasn’t often. I didn’t mind the delay. The scenery was beautiful and it was interesting watching the cyclists and the bystanders cheering them on. I learned later that 5,000 cyclists from around the world race over a 30 mile course every year.
We had to turn the clocks back an hour Saturday night. I hate the twice-yearly time changes because they are so disruptive to us physically and to our routines. Hannah finds the change in schedules difficult to adjust to as well. She insists on being fed ON TIME and it always requires calculation and adjustment to figure out that yesterday she ate at 8 am and 6 pm but today that would change to 9 am and 7 pm or is it 7 am and 5 pm? Furthermore, when it gets dark outside, she begins to nag me to go to bed. I’m not going to bed at 5:30 p.m. We have a battle of wills.
I remember when I was a child there was a huge push for Michigan to get on Daylight Savings Time. Before that, we didn’t change the clocks. The main justification was that Daylight Savings Time would prevent children from having to walk to school in the dark. So I always assumed that Daylight Savings Time BEGAN in the Autumn and ENDED in the Spring. I think many people assume the same thing. But for some reason, last week I asked EJ if we were going on or off Daylight Savings Time and he said that we were currently on it and when we changed the clocks over the weekend, we would be going off it. That didn’t make sense to me so I had to look it up. He was correct. It still doesn’t make sense to me because that means that when we are ON Daylight Savings Time, the children are walking to school in the dark and when we are OFF it, the children are walking to school when it’s light. So if we never had Daylight Savings Time, the children would never walk to school in the dark. So why on earth do we have Daylight Savings Time?
Another reason often used to justify Daylight Savings Time is that it helps the farmers but EJ, who grew up on a farm, sarcastically says that farmers have electricity these days in both their barns and on their tractors. And on a dairy farm, cows don’t adjust their milking schedule according to the clock. So that argument is nonsense.
I would be happy if we got rid of Daylight Savings Time altogether.
I grew up deeply loving my parents and family. It was only later that I experienced/learned that my Mom was emotionally abusive and that my family was not the Waltons. I learned this when I stood up to my Mom and she turned the others against me and disinherited me. I’ve told my story elsewhere and don’t want to retell it now because it’s not the focus of this part of my post. I just want to set some background. I went through some painful years and still sometimes struggle with the damage but over the years, as I’ve recovered, I’ve been able to acknowledge the abuse and the damage, but also to recognize that there were things I learned that I value. One of the things I appreciate is that my Dad always took us to historical places on our vacations and my Mom often told us to imagine living during those times. For example, what it would have been like to have to cook meals over a fire or to raise, shear, and spin the wool from sheep to make clothes. I remember her making us watch historical events–such as Nixon resigning as president–even though I didn’t always understand the significance at the time because it was history. “Today’s events are tomorrow’s history,” she said.
All my life, I’ve watched various events, deliberately keeping in mind that “today’s events are tomorrow’s history.” Since 2020, I’ve paid intense attention to current affairs because I have been aware that we are living through some very historical events. And as I’ve paid attention, I have learned an immense amount about a variety of topics–government, law, history, science, crime, deception, and more. I’ve learned that many things I thought were true are not, that many people and institutions I thought were trustworthy are not. I learned that our country has come very, very close to being destroyed, but good people are fighting for it. I’ve felt a part of the world in a way that I never have before. I know that some people have gone through these years very unaware. I kind of feel sorry for them because they are missing an awareness that they are living through history. It won’t be quite the same if they merely read about it later in the history books.
Tomorrow is Election Day. It’s one of the most important Election Days in history. In one way or another, it will change the course of our country–and not just the USA, but the world. I’ve read posts by people around the world who are aware that our elections will affect them too. They are watching to see what happens. I read their messages of love, support, and prayers. I urge you to be part of history and vote. It matters.
The weather turned warm again with highs in the mid-70s. It is because Michigan’s weather is so unpredictable that I always check the forecast. I need to know if the weather will be cold, hot, sunny, rainy, snowy–or all of the above–so I know what to wear and how to plan my day.

I have a lot of unique Michigan t-shirts. Last night, knowing that the weather was going to be warm, I spent several minutes hunting through my drawer of t-shirts for my plaid Michigan shirt. It just seemed the appropriate thing to wear on a warm autumn day. I found the shirt a month or so ago at the thrift store and only wore it a couple times before the weather became too chilly for t-shirts so I was glad to have the opportunity to wear it today.
For those who aren’t aware: The state of Michigan has two peninsulas: The Upper Peninsula (called the U.P., pronounced “yoo-pee,” not “up”) and the Lower Peninsula. The peninsulas are hand-shaped so we can use our hands to represent them, such as in the photo of my shirt. We often use our hands as a map to point out locations within the state. Years ago, a guy at church who had moved from Chicago said, “People in Michigan are weird. Whenever you ask them where a place is, they pull out their hand and point.” This is true.
It stays dark until about 8 a.m. now so when I get up at 7 a.m., I take my shower, feed the cats, and sit down with a cup of coffee or two and wait for the sun to come up before beginning my outside chores. Hannah Joy always sits next to me on the couch. Once in a while, she puts her head under my hand and flips up her head so my hand flies up. It is totally random and days or weeks can pass before she does it so I’m never prepared for it. This morning I had picked up my cup of coffee to take a sip when she put her nose under my hand and flipped her head up so that my coffee sloshed all over my plaid Michigan shirt. Grrr. I didn’t want to have permanent coffee stains on it so I immediately took it off, rinsed it, and got a different Michigan t-shirt to wear. I put together a load of clothes to wash with my plaid shirt. The forecast is for another warm day tomorrow so I will wear the shirt then–being careful that Hannah does not flip the coffee on me.
Hannah Joy has her quirks.
Hannah loves to sleep in the bed with us. The dog I had as a child always slept with me and I loved it. EJ’s Mom never let animals live in the house. One day she finally relented and got a cat neutered, which was rather expensive, with the intention of it being an inside cat. A few hours after she brought it home from the vet, someone came into the house not knowing there was a cat. The cat immediately escaped outside and ran into the road where it got run over by a car. That was the end of inside pets. So I love Hannah sleeping with us because it was a part of my childhood and EJ loves Hannah sleeping with us because it wasn’t a part of his. It’s nice having her cuddle with us…most of the time.
The problem with Hannah sleeping with us is that she takes her half out of the middle so EJ and I are pushed to the edges on either side with very little room. Hannah also loves to sleep between us under the blankets in the winter. When she gets too warm, she crawls out for a while to cool off but later she scratches to be let back under. I think it was in the wee hours of Monday morning that I woke and noticed that EJ was gone from the bed and the light in the living room was on. I peeked out and saw him sleeping in his chair. Sometimes he sleeps in his chair when his back is hurting or he isn’t feeling good so later when we were all up for the day, I asked him why he slept in his chair. He said that Hannah was between us and she kept kicking him to get more room for herself so he finally gave up and left. LOL. Hannah is such a bed hog.
EJ works four 10-hour days on night shift so for those four days, he is gone when Hannah and I go to bed and Hannah sleeps on his side of the bed. On the three nights when EJ is home, Hannah won’t budge from her (his) side of the bed and EJ can’t get into bed until we bribe her with a treat. She never expects a treat from me when it’s just her and me. We suspect she purposely positions herself on her (EJ’s) side of the bed when he is home, knowing that if she does so, she will get a treat. She’s pretty clever.
Besides Hannah’s night-time shenanigans, we have to deal with Timmy the cat. When we first got Hannah in late 2017, I kept the bedroom door open at night, but Hannah isn’t too fond of Timmy so she gave a shrill bark whenever Timmy came into the bedroom. This kept waking me up so I began shutting Hannah in the bedroom with me and Timmy out when I go to bed. Now Timmy occasionally meows outside the door and then puts his claws under the door and rattles it. It reminds me of a ghost moaning and rattling a door. Usually, Timmy just does it for a short time but if it goes on too long, I bang on the bedroom door. Saturday night he rattled the door for an hour or two, which is exceptionally long. I finally went out to the kitchen and put more food in his bowl to shut him up. But that’s not a thing I want to encourage.
I decided to start trying to teach the squirrels to take peanut butter crackers from my hand. When I was 16-years-old, I taught the squirrels to do this and I’m sure I can do it again. Back then I spread peanut butter on saltines but EJ suggested we get Cheez-Its instead because they are smaller and more squirrel-sized. I thought that was a good idea so we bought two boxes on Sunday. I spread a few with peanut butter each day and set them out so the squirrels develop a taste for them. Gradually I will move closer and closer until they get familiar with me and take the Cheez-Its from my hand. It will take patience, but I have patience. I’m calling this “Operation Squirrel.”
I’m trying to figure out the best time of day to set out the Cheez-Its for the squirrels. This morning I took some out when it was not yet fully light. I thought it was too early for the birds to be about, but as soon as I stepped out of the door, a chickadee flew in and hovered in front of me. I set the Cheez-Its out and went into and through the house to let Theo out of the garage and the chickens out of their coop. By this time It was fully daylight so I went back into the house, poured some seed into my hand, and stepped out on the deck. I had taken only a couple steps outside when two chickadees landed on my hand. This morning 27 birds ate from my hand. Yesterday I had 40. The number fluctuates each day.
The chickadees are my most frequent visitors, but the nuthatches now often take seeds from my hand. Some of the nuthatches have red breasts and some have white. I thought they were male and female, but I looked it up recently and learned that they are two completely different types of nuthatches. I discovered that nuthatches hiss when they want to warn off another bird. My next goal is to lure the tufted titmice onto my hand. They are flying closer, but are still too timid to land.
This last weekend I told EJ that if the fairy tales are true then, because I’m making friends with the animals, someday they will save our lives. He said he’d be happy if they did our chores. I told him that I don’t want them to do my chores, I want them to act as our security force and drive off intruders. Who knows? Maybe someday I will befriend bald eagles (we saw two soaring overhead on Friday) and they can drop rocks on the heads of unwanted visitors. LOL. We like invited guests, but not salespeople, orcs, or goblins.
I told EJ today that I’m finally fulfilling my childhood dream of being like Snow White. Who says dreams can’t come true?
My goal is to write a blog post about once a week. I try not to write TOO often because I know people are busy and too posts many might get annoying. Although I’ve been very slack about writing over the last year. It’s not because I having nothing to say–I write blog posts in my head all the time–but I have been too busy or too unmotivated. However, I’m writing a post today because I have an addendum to yesterday’s post about books. Besides, autumn and winter are cozy seasons and there’s always a strong inclination to cuddle up with a pet and a hot drink to read or write. So bear with me.
This morning when I came into the house after feeding the chickens and letting them out of their coop, I spotted a beautiful large apple sitting upright in the exact middle of one of the couch cushions. My brain kind of glitched as it tried to process the odd sight. Although I’m not Nancy Drew, I deduced that the only possible culprit was Hannah Joy. I certainly didn’t put it there and EJ was still sleeping in bed. The apple was not eaten or chewed. Only tiny shallow tooth marks were made when the culprit–Hannah–gently carried it from the basket on the kitchen table to the couch. I have no idea why she would do it and, being a dog, she’s not talking. Nancy Drew would undoubtedly have been able to get to the bottom of this mystery, but I’m not Nancy Drew so I merely cut out the tooth marks, sliced the apple, melted some peanut butter to dip the slices in, and ate the apple for breakfast.
This morning five chickadees and one nuthatch took seeds from my hand. I could easily have enticed more, but the temperature was in the low 30s and my stretched-out hand was getting cold. I’m going to have to figure out a way to continue hand-feeding the wild birds through the winter without getting frostbite.
The temperature rose to near 60 degrees through the morning. After lunch I walked Hannah Joy down the driveway for the mail. I wore a warm jacket because, for some reason, 60 degrees in the autumn feels cooler than 60 degrees in the spring and summer. I felt comfortable walking down the driveway but began to feel too warm on the walk up it so I unzipped my jacket. Even then I felt too warm and I would have taken my jacket off except that I held Hannah’s leash in one hand and a pile of mail in the other and it was easier just to keep the jacket on. I shed it as soon as I entered the house.
I forgot to look for Theo while Hannah and I were walking today. A couple of weeks ago I discovered from my trail cam that Theo sometimes stalks us when we go for walks down the driveway. Here is one of those times:
No matter how careful we try to be, autumn leaves stick to our shoes when we come into the house. I try to keep them swept up but it’s a useless endeavor. I put away the broom, turn around, and find more leaves scattered across the floor. So sometimes I just pretend they are intentional autumn decorations.
I’m continuing to read The Diary of a Bookseller by Shaun Bythell. I enjoy it so much that I’m reading it slowly so I can savor it like a glass of fine wine. Although, to be honest, I loathe the taste of wine so it’s more like savoring it like a cup of hot coffee on a cold day.
I remember reading in the book that there was a possibility of The Diary of a Bookseller being made into a television series, which I think would be awesome. This afternoon I wondered, “Hmmm. I wonder if it has already been done?” I searched online and found that Hollywood has bought the option to make it into a series but it doesn’t look as if it had been completed yet.
As I searched online for the series, I discovered that the author has a Twitter account. I went to Twitter and clicked “follow” when I had found his page. Here is a link to his Twitter account: Wigtown Book Shop
The author also has a Youtube channel with videos of his shop. I LOVE seeing places that I’m reading about. Here is a link to one of his videos: The Bookshop, Wigtown. The music in this video is by The Bookshop Band, a group he mentions in his book, which holds performances in bookshops and sings songs about books.
I might soon explore Wigtown, the town in Scotland where the bookshop is located. I love exploring the world but I’m such a Hobbit that I prefer to do so in the comfort of my own home where I can avoid airports, hotels, and other hassles of travel. I explore via Google Maps Streetview. I call myself an “armchair traveler.”
Tomorrow is “Pizza Day.” I make yummy homemade pizza every Friday. We eat half of it on Friday and the remainder on Saturday. I also usually do laundry on Fridays and we run errands if we need to. Fridays are quite busy.
The weather turned rainy and chilly overnight. I wore a sweatshirt and hoodie jacket when I went outside, but it was almost cold enough for a coat. I figured the weather would remain cold now, but I checked the forecast and the temperatures will be up and down. Today the high temperature is 48 degrees but it will gradually climb to 60 in a couple of days. The overnight lows will be in the low 30s or 40s. I waited until EJ left for work and then turned the furnace back on. He sometimes teases me about turning on/up the furnace but he doesn’t actually care if I turn it on. We are usually in agreement about keeping the thermostat lower to conserve propane. However, I think it makes a better story if I pretend I’m sneaking behind his back.
The leaves have been falling from the trees like a shower of confetti. Yesterday most of the trees had most of their leaves. Today probably half the trees are now bare.
Yesterday afternoon I saw blood on our older rooster’s leg. I didn’t know if it was the result of a kerfuffle with Edward the Turd or if he had killed a mouse or snake or something. I didn’t see blood on his leg today.
This has been a difficult week because our cat Little Bear is sick. He’s old–at least 14 years old–and we are not sure he’s going to make it. But I don’t want to write about that. Instead, I will write about books.
In 2022 I read that “Only a third of 10-year-olds globally are estimated to be able to read and understand a simple written story. The rest around two-thirds (64%) are unable to cover this marker for minimum proficiency in reading comprehension.” In looking up that information today to make sure I remembered it correctly, I read that two-thirds of American children can’t read fluently and that ““The shares of American 9- and 13-year-olds who say they read for fun on an almost daily basis have dropped from nearly a decade ago and are at the lowest levels since at least the mid-1980s.” I also read that In the United States, “14 percent of the adult population—a staggering 32 million adults—cannot read” EJ has told me that the majority of his co-workers haven’t read a book since they left high school. This appalls EJ and me because our lives have been so enriched by books. We have a home library filled with hundreds of books of many different genres: history, literature, travel, language, how-to-books, biographies, historical fiction, fantasy, science fiction… I could write much about the many ways that books have enriched my life. However, I want to narrow my focus to describe two–or maybe three or four or five–books that I’ve read and the things I’ve learned through them.
I love to buy books from thrift shops and library used book sales because the books are so inexpensive that I can buy many for a few dollars. Also, because they are inexpensive, I can take a risk on new authors. If I see a book that seems interesting I add it to the pile of books I’m buying, knowing that if I don’t like it, I can easily re-donate it without remorse because I didn’t pay much money for it. I have found some favorite authors by taking a risk at a used book sale.
A few weeks ago, I read a book I had bought from one of our library’s used book sales. It wasn’t a genre that I like. I usually stay away from books that are described as “hilarious” or “rollicking fun.” Your taste might be different than mine, and that’s fine but, in my opinion, the authors of books like these seem to focus so much on trying to be funny that they aren’t funny at all–and their story suffers. Also, they are filled with annoying cliches. They remind me of a vaudeville act or a sitcom with a laugh track. EJ says it’s because I like observational humor–laughing about people’s and life’s absurdities rather than heavy-handed “hilarity.”
Despite my dislike of this genre, I risked buying this book because its title was “Not A Girl Detective” and it was about Nancy Drew. I loved Nancy Drew books when I was younger. I still have most of them packed away in boxes. I had hoped to pass them on to a daughter but, alas, I never had a daughter. I often discuss with EJ books that I enjoy or learn from. He says he has learned a lot from me over the years (as I have him). Being a boy, EJ never read Nancy Drew books but early in our marriage, possibly when we discussed favorite childhood books, I told EJ about Nancy Drew. I said she could find a mystery in EVERYTHING and ANYTHING, no matter how trivial. I remember in one book, I think it was “The Secret of Red Gate Farm,” a saleswoman in a shop refused to sell Nancy the last bottle of a particular perfume. Nancy thought that was strange and, of course, she uncovered a huge mystery behind it. I told EJ that because “I’m not Nancy Drew,” I would have simply assumed that the store was reserving the last bottle of perfume for a favorite customer. Over the years, whenever EJ and I have become aware of some thing or event that was not what it had appeared to be, we have said, “Well, after all, we are not Nancy Drew.” If one of us questions, “What is that person doing?” Or “Why is he doing that?” Or “What’s happening?” the other will reply, “How do I know? I’m not Nancy Drew.” It’s become a family saying. So I couldn’t resist buying the book.
As expected, “Not a Girl Detective” suffered from the author trying to cram in too many jokes. However, the book also had a lot of very interesting history about Nancy Drew books. I had heard years ago that the Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys books were written by the same author under different names, but I didn’t know that multiple authors were actually part of a writing syndicate who wrote those and other books. They all signed a form promising to never divulge that they were one of the authors writing as Carolyn Keene (or as the authors of the other books). There was a lot of other history about Nancy Drew in the book as well.
Sometimes when I read a story that has “history,” I look it up on the Internet to verify if the information is true. For example, earlier this year I read a historical fiction series about a lawyer during the time of King Henry VIII. I went online to learn how accurate that information was and in the process I enjoyed hours of delving into the history of Middle Ages lawyers, King Henry VIII and his wives, the other English kings, the War of the Roses, and some of the warships of that time.
I also enjoy Dick Francis mysteries. Dick Francis used to be a jockey in the UK; he even occasionally rode the Queen’s horses. After he was injured in a race, he turned to writing. All his books have some connection to horses, although his characters are not always jockeys or trainers. In his books, I’ve learned about horse racing, glassmaking, renovating old buildings, and a lot of other things. In one of his books, his main character worked as a waiter on a passenger train traveling across Canada as he sought to investigate a crime. The train carried horses and their owners to various racetracks in Canada from coast to coast. I followed the progress of the train on Google Maps and learned about some beautiful areas (such as Banff National Park) that I had previously been unaware of. I also learned information about working on a train. I once found an old video on YouTube of Dick Francis actually riding in a race.
I think I own all of the books in Jennifer Chiaverini’s Elm Creek Quilts series. Her stories are woven around the history of quilts. The books are very interesting and I’ve learned a lot about quilts. One book mentioned the winners of a quilt contest in a world fair. I looked up information and now own a book about the quilts entered into that world fair. In one of her books, “The New Year’s Quilt,” the main characters stay in a B&B in New York City over the holidays. A German couple was also there and they were crushed when they discovered that no one knew of the German tradition of watching a short movie called “A Dinner For One” on New Year’s Eve. They had expected to watch it with the other guests. I looked up the movie to see if it actually exists. It does, and EJ and I watched it together just for the cultural knowledge. Months later, I asked a German woman in a Telegram chat group if watching that movie on New Year’s Eve was a German tradition. The woman gasped, “How did you know this?!” because most Americans have never heard of it. The movie is silly but I’m sure that it becomes funnier since Germans tend to match the characters’ drink for drink and get drunk while watching it.
Books are often the jumping off point to exploring things I didn’t previously know.
So, anyway, despite its failings, “Not A Girl Detective” taught me some interesting history about the Nancy Drew books that I hadn’t known. Here is one of the articles that I found about it: The Secret Syndicate Behind Nancy Drew.” I’m not sure if I will re-donate the book because the story is meh, or keep it because of the Nancy Drew information.
I’m currently reading a library-sale book called “The Diary of a Bookseller” by Shaun Bythell who owns a used bookstore in Scotland. I can’t resist buying books about books, especially when they have books and a cat pictured on the cover. I’m thoroughly enjoying this book and often laugh out loud while reading it. Written in diary format, it has the observational humor I enjoy, as well as descriptions of the highs and lows of the book trade, Shaun’s buying trips to old estates, the effect Amazon has on small bookstores, and the eccentric customers and daily life he deals with. It also has interesting historical, literary, and philosophical facts sprinkled throughout. This book is so enjoyable that last night I took pictures of a few of the pages–ones with stories I thought EJ would enjoy–and messaged them to him so he could read them on his breaks. He said he really enjoyed them. It lifted his spirits.
That’s a tiny glimpse of how books often teach me and enrich my life.
At 5:30 p.m. tonight, EJ messaged me from work that I might want to turn on the furnace. I laughed that I already had. He replied that he had just finished telling a co-worker that I probably had. LOL.
Michigan tends to be bi-polar. The weather is different from year to year, day to day, and even hour to hour. I remember years throughout my life when it was warm when we went trick-or-treating on Halloween night while other years it rained, sleeted, or snowed.
I was sure that we had permanently moved from warm to cold weather, from t-shirts to coats.
I was wrong.
For several days we’ve had blue skies and temperatures in the 70s. Today the temperature reached 80 degrees! I put aside my coat and returned to T-shirts. I would have opened all the windows today, but yesterday EJ took out the screens and I washed the windows.
EJ turned off the furnace when the weather warmed up again. I wonder if this means that our Autumn game of “How long can we last until we turn on the furnace” is back on? Do we ignore the days we had the furnace on or subtract them? Hmmm.
The trees took so long to change into their Autumn colors that I was beginning to think that the colors would be muted. However, they have finally burst into vivid color. Our enchanted forest tends to become so orange, gold, and yellow during this season that it feels as if the air itself has turned golden. I think we are at or just past the peak autumn color. The sky is sometimes filled with leaves flying off the trees. The trees are becoming more bare and I can see deeper into the forest. Friday we drove to the farm store for a few items. Our drive was so beautiful that we called it our “color tour.” I wanted to share of photo of the beauty, but a photo doesn’t do it justice.
For the last few years, EJ and I have bought several turkeys in November when they are on sale. We cook one for Thanksgiving and freeze the others to cook throughout the year. Eric cooked one of our turkeys on Friday and today I made 6 1/2 homemade turkey potpies. The half is because I didn’t have enough filling for a complete pie so I made a circle of dough, put the filling on it, and folded half the dough over it into a pastie shape.
I continue to feed my flock of wild birds every day, which fills me with delight and makes me feel as if I live in a truly magical place. Mostly the chickadees eat from my hand. Occasionally a nuthatch lands for a seed. They are getting bolder but are still nervous. The tufted titmice would obviously like to take seeds but so far they are too shy. I’ve seen blue jays hop into nearby trees as if they are watching me. I wonder if they will ever take seeds from my hand?
Each day my encounter with the birds is slightly different. Some days I have to wait for quite a while before a chickadee lands. Other times I barely get out the door before they are swooping around. Some days there are long pauses between bird landings while other times they come one after another. The birds are most active in the morning; it takes more patience to lure them in the early evening. This morning 14 birds took seeds from my hand and this evening 4 came. Last Thursday evening, one little chickadee returned 26 times for seeds. He ate some of the seeds, but I watched him bury others in my herb garden. I didn’t know that chickadees hid a cache of seeds.
When I was 16-years-old, I saw a neighbor woman hand-feeding peanut butter crackers to squirrels. I didn’t know her well so I never asked her how to do it, but I figured out how to train the squirrels to eat from my hand. It was cool. EJ sometimes goes to a discount store before work. I think it’s a store that sells items pulled off regular store shelves because they are outdated or not selling. The stock often changes. I told him that if he sees crackers to buy some so I can start feeding the squirrels.
Our forest is becoming more enchanted every day.
Yesterday morning the house felt chilly. I tried to be tough. If we can keep the thermostat low, we save on propane. However, I couldn’t get warm so I finally told EJ that I was going to turn the thermostat up a digit or two. He laughed and said that the furnace wasn’t on.
“What do you mean it isn’t on?”
“It’s not on.”
“You mean it has been off all night???”
“Yes.”
Yikes. That’s why I was so cold.
A few days ago the daytime high had reached into the mid-70s so we had opened the windows. EJ had obviously turned off the furnace then, which makes sense. However, the furnace hadn’t been turned back on and the temperature had been in the low 30s the night before; it was only in the 40s when I finally decided to turn the heat up. I turned the furnace on, pushing it up to 65. Today EJ was chilly and turned the furnace up another three digits.
The forecast for last night was for a possibility of snow. It was supposed to stop before daylight and not be enough to stick on the ground so I don’t know if it actually snowed or not. I told EJ that if it did snow, Winter has metaphorically drawn first blood. It won’t be long before it’s here to stay. We are never fully ready for Winter’s arrival although we enjoy it when we adjust to it.
Today was chilly and blustery. Sometimes we had sunshine and sometimes a burst of rain fell. At times we even had rain when the sun was shining. That’s Michigan for ya. I wore a winter coat and hat for the first time today. I’d say that t-shirt and shorts weather has come to an end.
Sunday EJ picked the rest of the vegetables from the garden and then we opened the gate and let the chickens in to glean any leftovers. It’s pleasant to look out the bedroom and see them happily eating and scratching.
I really enjoy being able to combine several of my trail camera footage into one video. Often several videos tell a story that can’t be captured by just one photo or video. I especially like the interactions between different kinds of animals, such as in the following video. For some reason, there is a fuzzy segment in the video even though the original is not fuzzy at all. I tried for hours over several days to get it right before finally giving up. Sometimes the program I use to combine videos works very well, but other times it doesn’t work very well at all, which is very frustrating. It hasn’t worked well lately. My computer is boggy and the program keeps crashing on me. But, whatever. Because I had such trouble with it, I didn’t try any fancy transitions between segments. Here’s the video:
FYI: That thing on top of the black bird feeder pole is a sunflower. EJ harvested them a week ago and I stuck one on top of the pole for the birds and squirrels.
Although some stories play out in front of the trail camera, some stories happen out of range. For example, yesterday morning I was outside on the deck attempting to entice the chickadees to eat seeds from my hand. It requires patiently holding still so I don’t scare them off. Usually after 4-6 chickadees have eaten from my hand, I replenish all the feeders and go back into the house. Once the feeders are filled, the birds aren’t as motivated to come to me. I was about ready to replenish the feeders when I looked up and saw a couple of fawns walk into the orchard. I continued holding still with my seed-filled hand stretched out so I would spook neither the wild birds nor the deer. (The chickadees kept landing on my hand.) The fawns were very curious. They were nervous but not alarmed. They kept looking at me and stomped a few times but I held still. After quite a long time, the Mama finally joined her fawns. She was more nervous and after a few moments of looking at me, she went back into the forest and her fawns followed her. EJ watched from inside the house but none of that was captured on the trail cam.
Our trees are finally getting some autumn color. Here is what it looked like yesterday afternoon in our orchard. There were mourning doves on the ground and deer were beginning to emerge from the forest: Autumn Afternoon
In my last post, written on October 7, I wrote: “We still have not turned on our furnace. We just might make it to our goal of not turning it on until October 15. Wednesday night the low is forecasted to dip down to 33 degrees. I’m tempted to turn the furnace on then, but I’m trying to remain strong.” The very next morning, THE VERY NEXT MORNING, I turned on the furnace. So much for remaining strong. I would not have turned on the furnace, but the overnight temperature had dipped to 31 and I was nervous that it was getting cold enough that our pipes might freeze. So I turned the thermostat to 45, telling myself that I was still honoring the spirit of our game, if not the letter, while also preventing the pipes from freezing. EJ noticed that I had turned on the furnace and, after teasing me a bit, suggested I turn it up to 58. A day or two later, I covertly moved it up to 60, hoping EJ wouldn’t notice. He did, but left it there. So, anyway, the game is over. We made it to the morning of October 8.
Years and years ago, I read an article in the Reader’s Digest magazine that was written by a veteran about his experiences as a Vietnam POW. He wrote that when a new prisoner was brought into the prison, they got with him a soon as they could to give him some advice. One piece of advice was that no matter how bad things got, it was important to maintain a sense of humor. They had noticed that whenever a prisoner could no longer laugh, he didn’t survive. I’ve never forgotten that advice. I’ve remembered it through difficult times in my life. I remember it even though we are living through some very difficult times now with high inflation, tragedies such as fires and hurricanes, threats of world wars, and various insanities. I keep track of what is happening in the world, but I also make sure I’m feeding my spirit with things that bring me joy. One major way that feeds my spirit is nature. As the hymn This Is My Father’s World says,
This is my Father’s world, and to my list’ning ears,
All nature sings, and round me rings
The music of the spheres.
This is my Father’s world: I rest me in the thought
Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas;
His hand the wonders wrought.
This is my Father’s world, the birds their carols raise,
The morning light, the lily white,
Declare their Maker’s praise.
This is my Father’s world: He shines in all that’s fair;
In the rustling grass I hear Him pass;
He speaks to me everywhere.
This is my Father’s world, from the shining courts above,
The Beloved One, His Only Son,
Was giv’n to show God’s love.
This is my Father’s world: why should my heart be sad?
The Lord is King; let the heavens ring!
God reigns; let earth be glad!
This is my Father’s world. O let me ne’er forget
That though the wrong seems oft so strong,
God is the ruler yet.
This is my Father’s world: The battle is not done;
Jesus who died shall be satisfied,
And earth and heav’n be one.
Watch on YouTube: This Is My Father’s World
When EJ is at work, we always message each other at 7pm when he has his first break and at 10 pm when he has his longer lunch break. During his lunch break last Thursday night, he messaged me that he and his co-workers were sitting outside and they saw the Northern Lights. So I went outside to watch them. I saw breathtakingly beautiful Northern lights strongly pulsating across the sky, even dark rose-colored ones, which I had never seen before. I watched for a short time but I could hear a rustling of something moving through the forest. There is something unsettling about being alone in the dark, hearing a noise, and not actually seeing what is making it. No doubt it was the deer, raccoons, or possums that I see on my trail camera every night. However, for all I knew, it could have been a bear. A few years ago someone reported at FB that they saw one only a mile away from us. Or it could be a cougar. A neighbor told us he had seen them in the area before. Or maybe it was the Dogman, which legend says roams our very area. Or even Big Foot. Or one of the criminals pouring over our borders. Spooked, I went back into the house.
My friends started sending me vivid photos of the Northern Lights from Michigan (south of Grand Rapids), Wisconsin, and Missouri. So I went back outside, sat on the deck, and watched the beautiful light show in the night sky for a couple of hours. I’ve never seen such awesome Northern Lights. It’s impossible to see such beauty and not think of God. In my mind, I heard “How Great Thou Art” epically thundering:
O Lord my God
When I in awesome wonder
Consider all the works
Thy hands have made,
I see the stars,
I hear the rolling thunder,
Thy pow’r throughout
The universe displayed!
Then sings my soul,
My Savior God, to Thee;
How great Thou art,
How great Thou art!
Then sings my soul,
My Savior God, to Thee;
How great Thou art,
How great Thou art!
Watch full song on YouTube: How Great Thou Art
In my last post, I told you about the birds that have begun eating seeds from my hand. They perch on the bushes and line the roof of the house to wait for me to replenish the feeders. Every day at least one flies into my hand and most days there are more. The chickadees are the boldest. By now I think that at least two dozen have landed on my hand. One time a nuthatch took a seed. The little titmice fly around me, but they have not yet dared to land. The other day, I took a video of the chickadees. It wasn’t easy holding my phone (camera) with one hand and the seeds in the other:
This morning FIVE chickadees landed on my hand, one by one. EJ watched from inside the house. Later, as we were sipping coffee, I suddenly said to EJ: “I have a theme song.” He queried, “You have a theme song?” “Yes. Do you want to hear it?” Of course, he did. It’s a cheerful song by Michael Kelly Blanchard. I enjoy Michael Kelly Blanchard. He tends to sing stories.
I’m tempted to combine many videos of chickadees eating from my hand and setting to this song. If I can figure out how.
The last few months I have not felt very motivated at all. I often think of writing, and even plan blog posts in my head, but Hannah Joy interrupts me frequently when she sees me writing. She seems to dislike anything that takes my attention off her. We call her part Attention Hound and part Grumble Bunny because she’s a bit of a nag–although we adore her. If it’s not Hannah interrupting me, it’s one of the cats wanting to sit on my lap. Sometimes it’s just easier to put aside my keyboard to cuddle.
Empathetic people feel the suffering of the world and since I keep myself informed of what’s happening in the world, I’m keenly aware that people are suffering so much with high inflation, health issues, devastating fires and storms, and other tragedies. This drains me emotionally. And, of course, EJ and I have our own challenges. I’ve also given support to a friend who is trying to escape an abusive husband. Sometimes it’s difficult to write about my gentle Hobbit life when all this other insanity and suffering is happening. My faith in God helps me stay strong but the suffering is still wearying so I try to take stress breaks to focus on the beauty and goodness in the world. Perhaps I need to write about my gentle Hobbit life for my own mental health–and maybe in case you need a stress break too.
The weather is gradually cooling and I’m wearing sweatshirts and jackets more often. We still have not turned on our furnace. We just might make it to our goal of not turning it on until October 15. Wednesday night the low is forecasted to dip down to 33 degrees. I’m tempted to turn the furnace on then, but I’m trying to remain strong.
EJ and I are accomplishing Autumn tasks to prepare for Winter weather. This last weekend we dug up potatoes. I picked the last of the green beans and EJ cooked some of the squash he grew. Today EJ disconnected two of the garden hoses and laid them out so the water can drain out of them before he puts them away. He hasn’t yet disconnected the hose in the front yard so I can fill the birdbath. He also hasn’t yet disconnected the hose I use to fill the chickens’ water dish. Once he does that, I will have to carry water with a bucket so he puts it off as long as possible.
I’m checking the weather each day to see when to take the screens out of the windows. We don’t want to take them out while we still can get some warm weather and open the windows. For example, the National Weather Service is forecasting a high temperature of 77 degrees on Friday so we will want to have the windows open. Once we take the screens out, I plan to wash the windows one last time.
With news of the longshoreman strike–which, thankfully, was delayed for a few months–we made sure we bought a few extra groceries. We were getting low on beef, which is very expensive these days. We read in the grocery store’s online ad that brisket was less than $6 per pound so we drove there to get some. We found it priced at about $9/lb, and EJ was planning to walk away because that’s too high. However, I motioned the man in the meat department over to ask him what the price was, mentioning that the ad said it was on sale. He said that that might have been last week’s price, but EJ showed him the ad on his phone and the man marked the brisket down for us. We bought four briskets for about 1/2 price, leaving one brisket for another customer. Life has taught us to be frugal and to think outside the box so on Friday EJ spent several hours grinding the brisket into ground beef while I measured it into half-pound portions to freeze. EJ’s co-worker from Louisana was horrified when EJ told him that we turn brisket into ground beef. However, we can get only a meal or two from each brisket if we cook it as brisket while we got a total of 57 half-pound portions from the four briskets we ground up. Since I use a 1/2 pound of ground beef for a meal, that’s 57 meals of many varieties.
EJ’s Louisiana co-worker is about the same age as our son. He came to Michigan about two years ago to work on the Great Lakes ships. He’s planning to go back on his ship soon because the money is really good. EJ had been bragging about my homemade pizza, which I make every Friday, and the guy asked if he could come visit on “Pizza Day” before he left for his ship. He visited a week ago last Friday. We had a grand time eating and talking. He ended up staying until after 1 a.m. He said we felt like “home” and “family.” We told him that if he’s not on the ship on Thanksgiving Day, he’s welcome to spend the holiday with us. I also told him that if he tells us what ship he will be on (he doesn’t know yet), I will keep an eye on him as he sails the Great Lakes. It’s fun knowing people on the ships and tracking them via app and live stream. I also pray for them during storms.
Meanwhile, our own son is still recuperating from badly breaking his leg when he slipped on the deck of the ship earlier in the summer. He’s in currently in physical therapy. He says he’s making improvement although it feels slow. He probably won’t be able to go back to the ship until next year.
Observing the wildlife outside my window and through the trail camera brings us a lot of joy. I’ve enjoyed watching the deer and raccoons with their babies this summer. The fawns are growing up and losing their spots. The rut will soon begin and I’m hoping to see some bucks appear in front of the camera. The raccoons are getting roly poly with winter fat.
Last week we had a coyote appear in the orchard during the day. Theo, our outside cat, is sweet but not particularly smart. He was sitting on the deck when the coyote appeared. He sat up with obvious curiosity and then ran TOWARD it. Alarmed, EJ ran outside shouting. He said he wasn’t sure if he was yelling at the coyote or at Theo. Both coyote and cat ran into the forest not far from each other. We called and called for Theo, afraid that the coyote would decide to snatch him as a fast food meal. Not long after we finally gave up, Theo appeared from the forest. I shut him into the garage for a while until the coyote had time to move on. A couple days after that, Theo saw deer in the orchard and decided to run toward them. They all glared at him and a fawn walked toward him, stomping a warning with each step. Theo decided to back away and the fawn curiously followed his trail until Hannah barked in the house and it ran back to the adults.
Here’s my video of the coyote incident. I’m learning to put together several of my trail camera media into a longer video. I’m also learning to add interesting elements.
Usually I only feed the wild birds during the Winter months but we enjoy them so much that I decided this year to feed them throughout the summer as well. As the birds have grown familiar with me, they have gotten bolder and in the mornings I hear the swish of many wings as they swoop around me in eager anticipation of their feeders being replenished. Some of the birds–especially the chickadees–have grown so bold that they come to the feeders when I’m standing next to them. Occasionally I’ve put seeds into my outstretched hand to see if they will land. The birds flew close before nervously veering off so I poured the seeds into the tray and walked away. But this week, although still nervous, the birds have begun to land on my hand to take the seeds. I’ve had about 10 chickadees and a nuthatch eat from my hand. I suspect that they will overcome more of their fear until they flock to me. It’s really cool. I told EJ that I’m beginning to fulfill my childhood dream of having animals gather around me like Snow White or Dr. DooLittle. He says he will really be impressed when the wildlife start cleaning our house.
Autumn has officially arrived. It feels like autumn with temperatures cooling, especially at night. However, the trees are not as colorful as they usually are at this time of year. We haven’t had much rain over the last month so I’m wondering if that’s muting the colors. Rather than vibrant reds, oranges, and yellows, the colors are more dull brown.
With autumn’s arrival, EJ and I have begun making lists of things to do before winter: finish harvesting the herbs and vegetables, let the chickens out into the garden to glean the leftovers, put away the garden hoses, and so on. We are making the lists but we want to wait until the last minute–just before the weather turns permanently cold–to actually do the tasks. I believe the hummingbirds have flown south so I put away one of their feeders that was empty. I was going to dump the nectar out of the other feeder and put it away also, but yesterday the honey bees began mobbing it so I decided to leave it up for them.
Yesterday EJ asked, “What is our target date for turning on the furnace?” In order to save money on heating costs, we play a sort of game each autumn, trying to wait as long as possible before we turn on the furnace. We decided we’d try to wait until October 15, which is actually quite late. Some years we’ve had snow before then. Whoever gives in first and turns the furnace on is the loser.
Last week EJ had his physical therapy assessment about his back. The therapist wanted him to come three times a week for a month, but he can only manage Fridays, which is his day off during the week. Even one day each week will be expensive because he has a co-pay of $85 per visit. Yikes!
The physical therapist was quite nice. We found out that she also has chickens. I told her that we had a problem with mice in the coop this summer and that I trapped more than 100. She said she doesn’t have any problems with mice because she sprinkles cheap cayenne pepper on the poultry feed. The chickens don’t notice it but the mice hate it and stay away from the feed. That was a very helpful tip which I put into practice as soon as we were able to get to the store for the cayenne pepper.
I trapped 96 mice in August but the number sharply decreased in September–only 11–even before we started putting cayenne pepper in the feed. I did find one mouse in a trap yesterday. Usually, I threw the dead mice out in front of the trail camera to observe what ate them. I know chickens eat mice, but my chickens are never very interested in them. However, I didn’t feel like taking the mouse all the way to the trail cam with just one mouse, so I decided to just throw it out in the chicken pen. The chickens went crazy; one hen grabbed it, and the others chased her to try to take it away. Chickens can sometimes act like land piranhas. Their “game” was still continuing after I had gathered the eggs and left their area.
Hannah Joy had been excessively itching. It got so bad that it was keeping me awake at night. I read that the itching could be caused by food allergies so we began making her homemade food. Her itching has greatly decreased. Hannah always loved her food, but now she LOVES it. She is so eager to eat it that she stands up to the counter and tries to eat it as we dish it into her bowl.
I’m noticing that the deer are getting in their winter coats and the fawns are losing their spots.
I’ve been slowly learning to combine several of my short trail cam videos into one longer video. At first, I concentrated on learning to combine videos and now I’m learning how to put in transitions between videos. I’m excited about this because now it’s easier to convey a whole story that lasts over several videos, rather than just pick one to upload to Rumble. Here is one of my longer videos in which a Doe makes sure a raccoon does not bother her two fawns:
In the app I use to combine videos, there is an option to let Artificial Intelligence make a video with the my footage. I tried it just to see what it would do. Here it is: AI Video I warn you, it’s pretty awful. I won’t let AI loose again. LOL.
Here we are, already in the second week of September. It feels like autumn. We’ve had our first frost although the temperatures are forecast to gradually warm up into the 80s. Even on warmer days there is a hint of crispness in the air. I don’t think the trees have as much color as they usually have at this time of year. Perhaps it’s because August was so dry.
This summer had gone by in a blur. I haven’t slept very well so I’ve been a bit tired and unmotivated all summer. Mostly I get my tasks down and then veg out. Actually, I haven’t slept very well since our son battled cancer in 2013-14, but my sleep patterns seem to have worsened this summer. It hasn’t been helped by Hannah Joy having a lot of trouble with obsessive itching. She sleeps with us and jiggles the whole bed when she scratches. I finally looked up what could cause itching–I know it’s not fleas–and learned that it could be a contact or food allergy. I washed her harness in case she was allergic to the homemade tick spray I had made. We also considered that the new pet food we bought Hannah could be causing her problems. So this weekend we began making her homemade food. The itching seems to be decreasing.
In early August I realized that I had a mouse infestation in the coop so I began setting traps. I was catching 5, 6, and even up to 9 mice a night. I began keeping a tally and I trapped 96 mice in August! The number has tapered off in September and my overall total is 104 mice. EJ is very impressed with my trapping skills. At first, EJ took the mice out of the traps for me because it was rather gruesome. Did you know mice sometimes eat their dead? I kept finding half-eaten mice in the traps. Yuck! But after EJ didn’t have time to remove the mice from the traps one day, I did it. And then I just kept doing it. I throw the mice out for other critters to eat–the whole “circle of life” sort of thing. I confess that I throw the mice in front of the trail camera to see what eats them. Most of the time I don’t see who takes them but I have seen a raven fly off with one and a raccoon carry another one off.
EJ and I made up a story about me being a legendary monster in mouse lore, a story told in whispers around mouse campfires at night. Sometimes young mice try to prove their bravery by challenging the traps, we say, but they never return home.
This morning EJ and I were in the garden. I looked over toward the chicken pen and thought I saw one of the blond chicks (Buff Orpingtons which are now full-grown) outside the fence. I thought it must be an optical illusion because I couldn’t imagine how she could have gotten out of the pen. We have a 10-foot fence around their pen and the garden. I looked again and realized that she WAS outside. So I quickly ran around the fence, thinking I could herd her through the gate at the far end of the garden and into her pen. However, she was anxious to rejoin the flock and kept running back and forth. After a couple tries, I was finally able to grab her and cuddling her I got her put back safely in the pen. I found no holes that she could have gotten through so I’m guessing she got up on the roof of one of the outside shelters and flew over the fence from there. I made sure to move the shelters that were too close to the fence. The shelters are merely dog crates. I have them in the pen so the chickens can run into them to escape rain or flying predators.
The apples are ripening on our apple trees. It’s a good thing we have fences around the trees because the deer are very interested in the apples AND the trees. They eat both. I’ve seen deer stand up on their hind legs to grab an apple or branch to munch. One time an apple was on the ground within the cage and I watched a deer try to paw it out. Here is one video I took of a deer stealing an apple. Her fawn is nearby, no doubt learning thievery from her Mama:
This is the first year that I keep feeding the wild birds throughout the summer. Usually, I stop feeding the birds in the Spring when the weather gets warmer. We’ve really enjoyed watching the birds flocking to the feeders this summer. It’s a real spirit lifter. When I go out to put the seed out in the morning, I hear the whir and flutter of wings as the birds excitedly circle around.
Every year we have bluebirds nesting in our birdhouses, especially one up near the large boulders. One of the boulders has a depression in it that is perfect for holding birdseed, and I also put several feeders around the boulders. The birds were landing on the roof of the bluebird house to wait their turn to get the seed which irritated the bluebirds trying to nest so I decided it would be best to move it a little ways away–still in view, but maybe not so close that the other birds land on the birdhouse. I waited until now to make sure the birds were done nesting. I’m still not sure I have the birdhouse located out of the way enough so I might have to move it again. But I will be careful when I move it because this is what happened:
The bluebird house is on a 10-foot wooden post. When I move a wooden post I rock it back and forth to loosen it from the dirt. Then I hug the post to lift it up out of the ground. I carry the post to the new location, dig a hole, pick up the post and put it in the ground, fill the space around the post with dirt, use a level to make sure the post is straight, and then stamp down the dirt around the post to secure it. So last week I was using the level to make sure the birdhouse post was straight after hugging and carrying it to the new location when I saw a large black thing crawl down the post. My heart fainted because I was quite sure it was a black widow spider. A very large black widow spider. I swear it’s body was the size of a grape. When it dropped to the ground, I saw the red hourglass on its body and knew my suspicion was correct. I picked up the post-hole digger and tried to hit the spider, but it was in the grass and I don’t know if I killed it. I shudder when I think that it could have landed on me. This information is why. This is from the summary that appears at the top of the search page on my computer:
Black widow spiders are venomous, but their deadliness is often overstated. According to various sources, the venom of a black widow spider is 15 times stronger than that of a rattlesnake, but this potency rarely translates to fatal consequences for humans.
Symptoms and Severity
When a black widow spider bites, the symptoms can be severe, including:
However, the severity of these symptoms can vary depending on the individual and the amount of venom injected.
Yikes! In the future, I will be very cautious when I move posts. Shudder.